Friday, April 18, 2008

An interesting one...

What do we think of this article? It covers a very specfic form of fetish, but do you think it paints this deviance as something negative, or something unique? (From http://abcnews.go.com/Health/AllergiesNews/Story?id=4674304&page=1)

Gesundheit? That's Hot
The Nose Knows What Turns a Sneeze Fetishist On
By RADHA CHITALE
ABC News Medical Unit
April 18, 2008

For most people, a sneeze is nothing more than an ordinary biological act: one "achoo!" and it is over. But for a certain group of enthusiasts, a sneeze means much more.

Many swoon over a delicate "htchew!" accompanied by a fine mist. Some like the breathy buildup, some like the release afterward. Others prefer them in series, one after another after another, in a phlegmy trifecta.

Music to the ears? Maybe not for most. But for those with a sneezing fetish, hearing, seeing or having a sneeze tickles them in all the right places. And with allergy season upon us, enthusiasts can look forward to some quality sneezing.

Take, for example, the members of Sneeze Fetish Forum, a site with discussion boards related to all things rhinologic. One poster describes a woman who has the "cutest sneeze ever. She gives a big 'ahhh.' Makes the squeak sound of a pinched stifle, and then lets out a loud 'chooo.'"

Response posts were alternatively congratulatory and envious of the poster's encounters with the sneezer.

One wrote: "Oh, what I wouldn't do to work in a desk beside your co-worker."

Another said: "That's great! I wish I could make a certain someone allergic to me."

Though experts have no simple explanation for how sneezing fetishes -- indeed, fetishes in general -- develop, sneezes themselves are not simple at all.

Gesundheit!

A sneeze occurs in two phases. During the nasal phase, an irritant -- dust particles, allergens or chemicals -- stimulates nerves in the nose. The brain signals nasal blood vessels to dilate and nasal glands to begin producing liquid. These events trigger the diaphragm and muscles in the soft palate to constrict during the respiratory phase. The eyes close as the body prepares to forcefully expel air -- and with it the irritant -- through the nose.

The process moves rather quickly, but a person with a sneeze fetish can find erotic pleasure in those few seconds -- and experts are stumped as to why.

Though they find creative ways to describe what is going on in the mind and body when it comes to sex, both therapists and researchers know little about how sexual behaviors develop. Some theories propose humans know what does or does not appeal to us sexually by age 8. Others say arousal patterns continue to develop through the teen years and beyond.

But fetishes tend to be deep-seated, often formed at a young age.

"Suppose a child were playing with him or herself and at the same time they hear someone in the next room sneeze," said Linda DeVillers, a Los Angeles sex therapist and psychologist. "The connection is made."

But beyond a personal fetish, sneezing may mimic other sexual behaviors, especially orgasms.

"It might be a good psychological parallel or metaphor," said Howard Ruppel, dean of the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. "It's like a buildup and let go or release."

But others say this theory is nonsense. Developing sexual behaviors, including kinks and fetishes, is a highly individual process.

Nothing to Sneeze At

A person with a fetish places great sexual importance on and becomes intensely aroused by inanimate objects, although body parts, like hands and feet, are often fetishized as well. These objects are required, in conjunction with sexual activity, for a person to be turned on.

According to Daniel Watter, a sex therapist and clinical psychologist in New Jersey, the clinical definition of a fetish has a pathological component as well.

"In order to be a diagnosable thing, that interest has to create some distress within the person or inability to work or live their life in some way," Watter said. "The element of being distressed is crucial."

A fetish can disturb a partnership if it becomes the primary focus of a couple's sex life. DeVillers described a couple she knew who engaged in bondage during sex.

"The man needed to tie up his girlfriend in order to be sexually functional," sex therapist DeVillers said. "She went along with it. She probably found it fun."

But bondage and sex became too intertwined in the couple's love life. Unless she was tied up, the man was not interested in his girlfriend, and she began to feel unattractive and unhappy, DeVillers said.

"Is it healthy to have creative, playful variety in your sex life? Yes," DeVillers said. "When it becomes very ritualized, it isn't so much fun as mandatory and odds are it's not ultimately going to be as satisfying."

What a Blow

Information on fetishes is limited because people only seek help when they are in distress. It is unlikely that a penchant for sneezing is going to hamper a person's life significantly and many experts have never even heard of such a fetish.

"If it hasn't come to any professional's attention, that must mean it doesn't disturb the partnership," said Aline Zolbrod, an author and lecturer on sexuality.

One poster on Sneeze Fetish Forum was not distressed at all by her college roommate's allergies: "It really seemed like everything made her sneeze, which did make me happy."

In lieu of expert guidance, many people, including those with a sneezing fetish, refer to the Internet for information. Sites such as Sneeze Fetish Forum and Tarotgal (now defunct, but still a source of information, stories and art), as well as Yahoo groups dedicated to sneezing offer a place where itchy noses and their admirers can gather to share stories, experiences and advice.

The shared experience of the fetish community makes for strong bonds, especially because fetishism was traditionally considered a kind of paraphilia, or a behavior that is beyond normal.

But the idea that fetishes or kinks, a looser term that means a person likes variant behavior, are beyond normal is giving way with people questioning the boundaries of what's "normal." Oral sex and masturbation were once considered deviant behaviors. Now many consider them mainstream; staples of a sexual repertoire.

"There's fetishes in every size, shape and color," Ruppel at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality said. "If something is rewarding to us and feels good to us at certain points in our development, we imprint it into our development. ... There is diversity in sexuality."

31 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I don't have much for this one. I guess people can really equate just about everything to some kind of fetish, and this proves it. It really doesn't seem as obscure as some other crazy fetishes, and is likely innocent enough. I bet these people were pretty pissed off when Zyrtec went over the counter...These pevs can't catch a break...at least pepper is still pretty cheap.

Anonymous said...

I think this behavior is far from deviant and could never be depicted as something thats deviant. It's something thats harmless and has no potential to hurt anyone. It's just the preference of some; and is also not very surprising-everything in society today has a sexual connotation or can be made to have one, it was only a matter of time before something as simple as a sneeze got one too.

Anonymous said...

I think tha article depicts this fetish as a unique thing, not necessarily deviant. I think it's probably a good thing that unusual fetishes are being discussed in a public manner, because they are considered so deviant but aren't necessarily so.

Caitlyn C

Anonymous said...

This fetish seems pretty bizarre to me. Unlike some other more well known fetishes, this does not really seem too sexual in nature. I think it can be viewed as deviant though because it is something so obscure and far from the norm. I don't see this sort of sexual behavior becoming popular anytime soon.

Anonymous said...

Ummmm, this really doesn't sound so deviant, especially compared to the material covered in class. I could see where it would get annoying to hear someone sneeze all day long and know they do it as a stipulation for a fetish, but beyond that I don't really see this as a true deviance. Now that alergy season is here it must be like Christmass to these folks.
Veronica V.

Anonymous said...

This is defiently an interesting type of fetish. I don't think this article is too harsh about it. While it does make some mild jokes with the section titles which some may find slightly offensive, I think its not anything that shouldn't be able to be chuckled at even for people who may enjoy this fetish. Its also a pretty low form of deviance as while most people will likely think its a little weird, if they are able to find a partner comfortable with it, theres no harm to anyone. It does raise interesting questions about how and when fetishes are formed though.

Anonymous said...

Wow a sneezing fetish, that is certainly a new one. The article dealt with it pretty well though, giving those with said fetish at least some sort of dignity. Had I heard this of this anywhere else I don't think I would have believed it. To each their own though I guess, I mean pretty much anything you can think of there is a fetish for so I guess this really can't be too much of a surprise.

Anonymous said...

This fetish is deviant because it's very different from the norm and extremely rare. But its not criminal, it doesn't harm or threaten anyone. It's just really strange and odd. It is interesting to read about how almost any act can be a fetish to someone.

Anonymous said...

They're out there. People who have peculiar fetishes, and those who are lucky enough to study and evaluate them. I don't think this article paints the act as deviant, as much as it basically describes what a sneeze is and how one can acquire the fetish. Another one I don't understand..

Anonymous said...

The article definately depicts this type and most types of fetishes as unique. It only really thinks that fetishes are a problem when it begins to control your whole life. For the must part this is true. Fetishes should not be seen as deviant even if they are a bit odd. The only time they should be considered deviant is if it is detrimental to someone. This type of fetish is definately one of the weirdest ones I have ever heard of but I guess now there is pretty much a fetish for everything.

Anonymous said...

As far as fetishes go, I think this one is kind of funny. Sneezing is the most random and obscure fetish I've ever heard of. Besides, sneezes last barely one second, by the time you notice it it's over. The article seemed to be equally mystified. They didn't paint as a deviance, but rather, something bizzare and interesting.
C. Leahy

Anonymous said...

In response to Rushelle, deviance doesn't always hurt someone. This fetish is deviant in the fact that not many people find that sneezing is a turn on and those who do aren't seen as conforming to social norms. The article really does prove that fetishes surround just about everything. This has to be one of the oddest ones I've heard of. Like someone else said, a sneeze is so short. How does someone get turned on in that fraction of a second? It's puzzling.

Anonymous said...

I believe this is one of the strangest and funniest articles I have read. In my own personal opinion, I consider sneezing fetishes to be quite gross especially when thinking about what can come out of your nose, following a sneeze. I do not think anyone would really consider this fetish to be completely deviant, other then the fact that it seems so uncommon.

Anonymous said...

I believe that this act is harmless enough and would only be characterized as a deviant behavior because most people aren't obsessed with hearing another person sneeze. I believe that is worth noting that in the article it was stated that no cases had been reported in which this fetish caused any individuals stress in any way. I believe that this demonstrates that this behavior is essentially harmless.

Anonymous said...

Just like we saw in the presentations , there are fetishes out there for everything. It seems rather harmless to have a sneezing fetish ,and the pepper comment above made me laugh...but something that was presented and mentioned was that sometimes these fetishes actually overcome the people and replace their partner in terms of gratification. Are they with you for you , or with you because you sneeze loud, hard to tell... It shouldnt really be considered deviant , it seems rather innocent in my mind, different things do it for different people, and we are always wondering how people are wired for that.

Jasmine Roman said...

If somebody finds my sneezing hot and errotic, I have no problem with that and they are not harming me. Until those fetishes become public and start putting other people in uncomfortable situations-that is when it becomes a problem. I would not necessarily consider this deviant, because there are plenty of odd sexual behavior going on in the world.

Matthew Fros said...

I think this behavior is not as deviant as some may think. I think it is a unique behavior and is far from being deviant. There are other fetishes that I could think of that are far more crazy or disturbing. I think it is a strange behavior and more research should be done on this fetish. It is hard to understand why and how fetishes begin. I seems like anything and everything can become a fetish

Anonymous said...

I dont think this is a deviant act, i think its more unique then anything. A persons sneeze is something interesting to study but to have a fetish over it, its kind of weird. I also think tieing up someone is there preference and not so much a deviant act. I think its ok and good to have your own preference.
T.Elia

Anonymous said...

This is a strange fetish, but then again so are many others. I would consider this deviant only because from what I know not many people find sneezing to be arrousal. So this fetish is unusual to the majority therefore it is a deviant behavior. Though, I wouldn't consider this harmful. I had no idea anyone would have this kind of fetish. I'm interested to see other types of fetish behavior.

Anonymous said...

While I have to hardly consider this act deviant, it is definetely an odd fetish. It is difficult to relate this to any sort of deviance unless someone is so desperate to make themeself or parner sneeze that they expose allergies. While it is hard to relate actual deviance, there are definetely some relationship problems that may occur within this or any fetish. The question here is whether or not these people are letting their fetishes take over their lives. Are they only in a relationship with someone who has cats because they are more liekly to sneeze around them? People are so odd.
Ashley G

Anonymous said...

I never would have thought there could be a sneezing fetish but everyone is amused in their own way. This can be perceived as deviant because people are turned on by sneezes but I feel like it is relatively harmless. I don't see anything worse coming out of a sneezing fetish besides some people being turned on from it. Almost anything can be classified as a fetish most of which is absolutely harmless. This can definitely be put in that category. I guess people can find anything a turn on these days.

Yea said...

This fetish is like any other fetish whether accepted by society or not. As long as it doesn't pose a problem to the persons life then live and let live. Sneezing is not something I've heard of before but it's not surprising considering other fetishes that involve biological functions. As long as people with this fetish aren't harming themselves or others I don't see the behavior as being deviant.

Anonymous said...

The article is confused as to what is causing people to become infatuated with sneezing and other fetishes. Here is a hint, they are all crazy!! You can not compare oral sex and masturbation to these types of fetishes because at one point in time they were all deemed deviant by society, mostly the church. Oral sex and masturbation have also been common practice for basically forever. These people must be thinking about sex all day to all of sudden associate sneezing or what ever to sexual pleasure. How a sane person could conduct themselves in such a manner and be turned on by sneezing is beyond me. The article in a way is justifying the sneezing fetish and others but only when they are detrimental to the person's life. If a fetish hinders a person's life it shouldn't be hard to diagnosed that person with a disorder. I am actually scared now to sneeze in public.
-Eric Spaulding

Anonymous said...

This is really one of the weirdest fetishes i have ever heard of. What is so amazing about a sneeze. Most people hate it when they sneeze, and now there are those who love hearing someone else do it. The entire thing about correlating a child playing with him or herself while they heard a sneeze is just nonsense. There are so many other things that any child probably hears during a similar moment, but yet never develops a fetish; how can that be explained. My opinion is that some of these people are just seeking some kind of attention because there is no legitimate connection between a sneeze and sex. Oral sex was seen as deviant in the past but it is a form of sex. during these encounters the body actually feels physical sexual gratification. spots are being reached in the SEX ORGANS.... now sneezing, there is nothing sexual about it.

Anonymous said...

Glad to see ABC News was on top of this important news story. I may think this is weird, but at least no real harm seems to be coming from this. It is not like these people are calling people up and telling them to sneeze because you can not really sneeze on command. This is not child porn this isn’t feet this simply something that can go unnoticed. In fact if someone was infatuated with my sneeze I would be quite proud. On Craigslist you can find men paying to see women try on clothes and shoes; I would totally be willing to be paid to be followed around when I have a cold just so someone could catch a glimpse of my glorious sneeze.

-Robert S.

Anonymous said...

This article brings up one of the more random and unexpected fetishes. Most people wouldn't think of sneezing as sexually exciting, but what the article does is show that there is truly something for everyone. This kind of fetish probably always existed for some people, but now that you can google their website people are simply becoming aware of it. It's not really new, I think, it's just news to us.
-Rose B.

Anonymous said...

The article does not depict this fetish as deviant, but it does seem to be making fun of it at the beginning. Most fetishes, although some can be quite strange, are usually harmless. Of course all fetishes can be taken to an extreme, but I feel safe in saying that this one cannot. B. Brown

Joe P said...

This pretty much directly defines fetishism - an unusual sexual interpretation of a traditionally non-sexual event or act. There's probably somebody out there to find just about anything sexually stimulating in some odd way. The bottom line for this particular article though is that it's victimless. Nobody is getting hurt, what people want to do in the privacy of their own bedroom is their business. If sneezing turns you on, god bless you, have fun, and don't look at me like that when my allergies kick in.

Craig H. said...

I agree with some of the other posts in that this is proof of the wide range of fetishes people have. It's a little on the weird side but it seems harmless enough. If these people are into sneezes but don't bother anyone else with their weird preferences, then good for them.

Anonymous said...

I think this article paints this sneezing fetish in a pretty neutral light if not a positive one. Its very informative and nonjudgmental. It describes where such fetishes may come from why some people may be into them but yet also discusses some extreme cases where certain fetishes may become pathological or destructive to relationships. I think more media coverage should follow this pattern, your meant to share the news and info not your personal opinion and biases.

Anonymous said...

I guess everything can be seen as sexual. I don't find it deviant just strange.